Another question about .?

ok here is another question i have about . How do i start it? like what do i do to hint the girl that i wanna have ? or what do i do to her that she will like? how do i know how fast to take it or what she likes or wants me to do to her? and anything thing else i forgot to ask about this you guys can feel free to add in. no rude comments please. im just curious. thanks :D if you wanna talk further my AIM screen name is Cpt skurvy Thanks again!