How to stop frauds, scam, cheating?

You have been scammed, you lost money, self esteem, pride to con man who makes his living off cheating trusting women. He is a commusate actor and he's played this role many times. He knows what you want to hear and as soon as he has your complete trust the subject of money comes. You think nothing of lending it to him because he is such a gentleman. I'm saying all this so that maybe you'll stop blaming yourself for what he did to you. The very first thing you need to do after you've read this message is to call the police.He may have a warrant out for his arrest all ready. If you just sit back and beat your self up you're just giving him [ permission to do to other women what he did to you. If the police can't do anything right away at lest you will have the satisfaction that you took the only option to you. You are a very kind and trusting woman it;s disgusting that someone would take advantage of you.